One love at a time...
Never love one too much, if U don't want to not hate your-self later...Ohh how we learn these things with age. I have loved greatly once......dunno know if I will EVER love the same way as I did and nothing can change that. Others have the right to know.....thankfuly I'm blunt as it gets.
Those of you WHO have greatly loved once, did your second love felt the same as the first? Surely, mine don't.
posted by Dem Soldier @ 10:16 PM
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My second didn't but my fifth one was greater then the all of them together
Yeah, I think you always have to maintain a healthy "sole proprietership" mentality in life.
Well... I'm not sure I can "quantify" the way I loved the first time vs. the way I loved after that. I guess because the way you love also changes. For example, you can still love as deeply and as passionately the second/third/fourth, etc. time around as you did the first time, but not be as possessive or trusting or however you were the first time around. But it doesn't necessarily mean you love any less.
I'm sorry... I didn't even answer your question correctly.
No... every time I have loved, it has always felt differently from the others. I dont think that you could ever feel the same way more than once.
Wow. I've never really experienced that. Maybe that's why I never understand when my friends get all disgusting with PDA in front of one another.
"Never love one too much, if U don't want to not hate your-self later"
A "broken heart" is a learning experience. Certainly it changes us, as all experience does. Hating yourself will only cause you to deny yourself of loving fully in the future. The old "no pain, no gain" thing.
Brian...THE 5th one? Lol.
Rocket...Few are in-love with thyself than I...That's my name..:)
Nova..that's what I mean about this, no matter what! I still can't love the same way I did or I want...and for me, I don't hide this from those I have dated. Loving different each-time is expected, but for me, after the first time, the rest feel the same..but not the first. If that makes any sense..:)
Secret..I have few yrs on you, just wait things will not seem that easy.
The Future...The knowing that you will not be as in love as U had in the past is something that worries me, I don't know why? May be what your saying has a point, that I have sat this in my mind and its hard for me to change to another tune...may that's it.
Trust me, it will be better! We learn, we grow.
When I look back I don't even know if what I thought was love was love at all.
Well I don't know about my first love vs my second because I was inlove with both at the same time. I am just hoping my 3rd will be better than both and restore my faith in being completely in love again because I am so scared to fall in love and have my heart broken the way I did with those two.
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